Marriage & Divorce

Advice after separation

Question (#272) Country : New Zealand Assalamu Alaikum. I am seeking guidance about my divorce and duʿāʾ. For almost three years, I sincerely made duʿāʾ that my husband would love me more and that we would stay together and go to Jannah. However, he sent me back to my family home and divorced me without…

Question relating to Khula

Question (#270) Country : New Zealand Assalam o alaikum, Husband and I have been living separately in same home for quite some time because we were trying to sort out finances, have 4 kids under the age of 15, have joint home with mortgage. Now, i feel ready to move on. This situation is unbearable!…

Method of divorce in Islam

Question (#267) Country : New Zealand Assalamalaikum, I have separated from my ex-wife for 2 years now. X conducted our Nikah ceremony in Auckland but he has informed me that he doesn’t do divorces. We did fill out some paperwork for the islamic marriage at the time and i am not sure where that is…

Marital issue and Rujoo (retracting ones Divorce)

Question (#264) Country :  Salam, I have a complicated situation regarding marriage, and I’m seeking an Islamic ruling about it. My ex-husband and I separated about X months ago. At that time, he told me clearly that I was divorced from him. About a month after that, he tried to talk to me to get…

Great uncles & aunts

Question (#257) Country : New Zealand Are great uncles considered as ones mahram? And husbands of great Aunts? Answer بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته حامدا و مصليا و مسلما Muhtaramah We have received your query regarding great uncles and great aunts, our response is as follows: If by great…

Khula and Faskh-un-Nikah

Question (#254) Country : New Zealand If your wife wants to leave you but you want to fix the marriage, can she have the marriage annulled? If the husband grants Khula can he stipulate what the wife needs to pay back or is it just limited to the mahr? If the wife wants to pursue…

Communication before Nikah

Question (#250) Country: USA Asalam Alaykum how are you ? If a muslim man is engaged with a muslim woman and they are planning to marry , does he need the muslim woman’s father permission to see her without hijab ? What if she shows herself to the muslim man without hijab while not having…

Why doesn’t my wife love me?

Question (#247) If the husband loves his wife so much extremely and is so much in love with her but in return she doesn’t appreciate his love and is very disloyal towards and may even think his love is of no value , how should the husband handle such a wife without getting angry and…

Relationship with ones spouse

Question (#245) Country: USA Asalam Alaykum how are you ? Is the wife the man’s whole life and destiny or she’s apart of his life and destiny or she’s worldly ? Is it haram or bad if a man wants to give his whole soul and life for wife and submit to her ? Answer…

Talking before Nikah

Question (#242) Àsalam Alaykum how are you doing ? My question is , if I met a sister and I want to get to know her for marriage by talking to her in the presence of my parents , is it Haram if this is for a little bit of time without the knowledge of…