Marriage & Divorce

Signing Divorce Papers

(#201) Question Assalam o Alaikum! I pronounced a divorce to my wife (in the absence of her) only one time which was witnessed by 04 persons but the legal papers I signed, had a word “divorce” three times. Is this divorce is irrevocable or we can count it as First Divorce? Regards. Answer بسم الله…

Marrying the Ahlul Kitab

(#200) Question Al salamu Alikum W Rahmtu Allah w Barakatu. I met this girl and we have been talking for 5 months. She is a Christian, but she does not go to the church anymore. And she had sexual intercorse outside of marriage some time BEFORE we met. We never had sex. We just talk…

Issuing of three divorces

(#198) Question Dear Sir, I hope this email finds you in good health and high spirits. I am writing to seek your guidance and clarification on a matter that has been causing distress and confusion in my life. Firstly, I would like to provide you with some background information. I have been married for 18…

Details on Faskh-un-Nikah and Khula

(#197) Question Salam Alycom, I have a follow-up question regarding answer (#183). The statement “Since Khula is an agreement of contracting Talaaq by means of a monetary/material exchange, a separation will not occur and similarly the husband will not be deserving or entitled to the exchange upon which they agreed upon without the condition of mutual acceptance of…

Excessive physical exercise for ones spouse

(#196) Question Asalam Alaykum how are you ? Is it haram for a man to seek extremely extraordinary pleasure with his wife in intimacy by spending hours everyday exercising his private aspects through heavy intense weightlifting ? How many hours is the limit and is considered excessive and too much ? When does it become…

Body enhancement for ones spouse

(#195) Question Asalam Alaykum how are you ? So basically my question is that I am currently engaged to a sister in my home country overseas in middle east. I am planning to go there in some months and do nikah through her parents and Imam . I don’t communicate with her now until I’m read to marry…

Marital issue and Khula

(#193) Question Salam brother / sister, I need some advice regarding khula. My nikkah was done in ….. The sheikh that did it didn’t provide a nikkah certificate at all . we are not legally married either . Since i got married my husband did not stay in the same room as me , which…

Khula

(#183) Question Asalam walaykum ,  I am looking for information regarding Khula process. Who I can talk to ??Jazakallah  Answer بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته حامدا و مصليا و مسلما Muhtaramah We have received your query regarding Khula, our response is as follows:  “Khula” is when the wife requests a…

Talaaq whilst sleeping

(#180) Question Country: India Brother help me please  Assalamualaikum  Brother few months back I uttered the word talaq i was in sleep but the problem is neither was i fully asleep nor was i fully awake I was not fully asleep but i was not 100% conscious either Will talaq take place in this condition…

Adorning oneself for ones spouse

(#162) Country: USA Question Asalam Alaykum how are you ? Is it haram or makrooh at all for one’s wife to please her husband by adorning and enhancing her size of hips through exercising , and enlarging her breasts and nipples without surgery through breast pumps and taking estrogen increasing supplements like fenugreek and growth hormone increasing supplement amino acids…