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Question
Asalam Alaykum how are you ? So basically my question is that I am currently engaged to a sister in my home country overseas in middle east. I am planning to go there in some months and do nikah through her parents and Imam . I don’t communicate with her now until I’m read to marry her but I want to buy female upper body enhancement such as breastpump online (without looking at it or opening the delivery box) and also buy halal herbal supplements for increasing chest size such as Hops , Fenugreek , Guggul so I can give it to her on the night after we do nikah through Imam . I have easy access to disable online images on my computer and whichever website I want to disable the images so that way I can buy a female chest pump but not see the haram images . The reason I want to buy it now is because I won’t be able to return to my home country after I marry her for near another year due to my job vacation policy . Is it haram or makrooh at all for me to buy a female breast pump that I don’t look at it when it’s delivered or open the box , and also buy herbs for chest enlargement and so I can give it to her after we do nikah since I won’t be able to do it for another year and cannot send any mail overseas to that country because it’s against the law in usa ?
Answer
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته
حامدا و مصليا و مسلما
Muhtaram
We have received your query regarding body enhancements and supplements, we apologise for the belated reply, our response is as follows:
Our advice to you is that you should avoid giving your future spouse the above mentioned body enhancements and supplements. The beginning of one’s marriage is an extremely delicate time in ones life. Providing such items may have an extremely detrimental effect on one’s marriage.
The key remedy is to guard ones gaze from the opposite gender, by the blessings of guarding ones gaze Allah Ta’ala will plant satisfaction in ones heart for the appearance of ones spouse. Otherwise, Shaytan and Nafs will continue to drag a person into a dream world and one will never be satisfied.
And Allah Ta’ala knows best
Answered by:
Muhammad Irshad Motara
28th Rajab 1445
9th February 2024
