April 12, 2025

Relationship with ones spouse

Question

(#245)

Country: USA

Asalam Alaykum how are you ? Is the wife the man’s whole life and destiny or she’s apart of his life and destiny or she’s worldly ? Is it haram or bad if a man wants to give his whole soul and life for wife and submit to her ?

Answer

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته

حامدا و مصليا و مسلما

Muhtaram

We have received your query regarding the relationship between spouses, our response is as follows:

We do not fully understand the question. You may contact the Darul Ifta again and elaborate on your question. If you are asking whether ones spouse is destined, then the answer to this is that everything is destined by Almighty Allah Ta’ala, including who will be ones spouse. We submit to Almighty Allah Ta’ala and his commands, one should have love for their wife and treat her with kindness. Advise her with affection to practice on the Deen.

And Allah Ta’ala knows best

Answered by:

Muhammad Irshad Motara

13th Shawwal 1446

12th April 2025