August 10, 2024

Free mixing in a shared house

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Question

1) Due to lack of housing and high cost of living …. Today in NZ, it is very hard for single Muslims to find a place with only Muslims from a single gender to live with (i.e rentals & flating) 2) Also, it very common to see Muslim families renting and sharing a room in thier own house with a Non-Muslim or an أجنبي or a غير محرم to compensate the cost of living. 3) Is free mixing between genders (اختلاط) alowed in this case ? 4) Finally, what can we do help to the Muslim community in this regards? Salam Alykum …

Answer

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته

حامدا و مصليا و مسلما

Muhtaram

We have received your query regarding sharing rooms with the opposite gender and other related issues, our response is as follows:

It will not be permissible to share a room with a person of the opposite gender.[1] If a Muslim family wishes to share an area/room within their home with someone else (in order to assist in the living costs for example), then we advise that the room is given to a practising Muslim. Furthermore, it is necessary that  the laws of Parda are completely adhered to i.e. there are separate entrance/exits and no interaction between males and females takes place.

And Allah Ta’ala knows best

Answered by:

Muhammad Irshad Motara

4th Safr 1446

9th August 2024


[1] ١)  عن عقبة بن عامر رضي الله عنه قال قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم “اياكم والدخول على النساء” الخ 

(مشكوة المصابيح، كتاب النكاح، ص ٢٦٨: قديمي)  

٢) فتاوي محمودية: ج ١٩، ص ٢١٩-فاروقية جديد

 For more detail on this, please refer to the article “Poisonous arrow of Shaytan” on the Darul Ifta website.٣)